On Being Single


just might be BETTER!

SINGLE means you have the time to grow and be the person you want to be. Sometimes, it is harder to grow when you are too close to someone. Trees are planted far apart so they can spread their branches and become strong as they mature.

SINGLE means learning to live by yourself. However, that is no more difficult than learning to live with somebody else.

Single means freedom. You are free to spend time with your friends, meet new exciting people or work late on an interesting project,to spend the day in beach with a good book or simply with a person who has read one.

SINGLE means learning not to need that "someone" to make your life meaningful but learning to live with that someone because you want to be with him/her.

SINGLE means that sometimes you will wonder why you will bite your lip and feel wistful and wonder if being in a relationship is better. Ironically, yet quite happily single is feeling good about being in control of your life. It is liking and respecting who you are and why you are.

SINGLE is realizing that being in a relationship is not necessarily better, it is merely different.

SINGLE means that there could be something wonderful around the corner and you can take advantage of it.

SINGLE means you are free to love again.

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Matt said...

Beautiful writup, thank you for giving me some thoughts to think about...

MeRL said...

Sorry, I just read your comment now. I've disabled the comment notification for this website.

You're welcome. :)

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